You Are Not As Self-Aware As You Think You Are: Why true self-awareness is at the core of great leadership

By Julia Carden

Are you really as self-aware as you think you are?

You Are Not As Self-Aware As You Think You Are by Julia Carden challenges one of the most common assumptions in leadership, that self-awareness is something we already have.

This insightful book unpacks what self-awareness truly means, clearly distinguishing it from self-knowledge and self-consciousness. Drawing on Julia Carden’s doctoral research, it shows how developing real self-awareness leads to deeper self-acceptance and self-connection, helping leaders detach ego and self-worth from outcomes.

Designed for leaders navigating uncertainty and “wicked problems,” the book combines research with practical reflection questions and exercises, making it equally valuable for coaches and anyone committed to personal growth. A powerful read for those who want to lead with greater clarity, resilience, and authenticity.